In a bid to raise awareness and combat violence against women and children, Atty. Jonas Anton M. Manalo, Attorney V of the National Police Commission Regional Office MIMAROPA, addressed personnel of the Schools Division Office of Calamba City during the 2024 Culminating Activity for the 18-Day Campaign to End Violence Against Women and Their Children at Bulwagang Rizal, 4th floor of the DepEd main building on December 4, 2024.

 

Atty. Manalo highlighted that violence under Republic Act No. 9262, also known as the Anti-Violence Against Women and Their Children Act, can take various forms: physical, psychological, financial or economic, and emotional abuse. He described these as grave violations of human rights that require immediate action.

 

In his discussion, Atty. Manalo shed light on everyday behaviors that may constitute abuse. He explained that regularly asking about a woman’s whereabouts, prohibiting her from wearing certain clothing, such as cropped tops or short shorts, and forcing her to agree to a joint savings account are all manifestations of controlling behavior, a form of emotional and psychological abuse.

 

He further elaborated on stonewalling, describing it as an abusive method where the perpetrator cuts off all communication, using the “silent treatment” to manipulate the victim into submission.

 

In his closing remarks, Atty. Manalo highlighted key steps to address and prevent VAW: educate all genders about their rights and responsibilities, practice self-respect and avoid tolerating abuse, value personal well-being by prioritizing peace of mind, and encourage victims to seek help before abuse escalates.